Kamal Ghorui
Now that summer is here, when someone asks, ‘How are you?’, the answer comes almost by reflex: ‘Exhausted.’ We say it so casually that it has nearly become the season’s standard greeting. Yet it is worth asking: what exactly are we exhausted from? Is the body tired? Is the mind worn down? Or is it a peculiar modern combination in which the body is still functioning, but the mind feels like a room in which too many switches have been left on, and the summer heat does not allow anything to cool down?
Exhaustion can come from a demanding day at work, an emotionally draining conversation, inadequate sleep, irregular meals, poor hydration in summer, delayed medication, or a mind preoccupied with anxiety, deadlines, comparisons, and incoherent thoughts. Sometimes even the food we eat contributes to the matter; too much spice, too much tadka or perhaps an annual appraisal call in April, when one’s boss seems to remember only what went wrong, may leave a person feeling defeated psychologically and gastronomically!
Then there is what many working people experience as the second shift of life. One returns home, plans dinner, and begins preparing for the next day. Pending matters need attention before retiring for the night. It is important to understand the kind of exhaustion we are experiencing. Physical tiredness is one thing. Mental exhaustion is quite another. The first often asks for rest. The second asks for relief, clarity, and meaning. Curiously, physical exertion does not always drain us. A walk, a run, yog, swimming, or even a disciplined exercise routine can leave us feeling more alive than before. Blood circulates better. Sleep improves. Endorphins rise. A certain lightness returns.
By contrast, mental fatigue can deepen even while we sit in a chair and appear comfortable. There are days when one has barely moved and yet feels utterly spent. Why? Because the mind has been pulled in different directions. This is an important distinction: not all effort depletes us. Some effort energises us.
Think of a day when you worked intensely; your mind was engaged, and progress was visible. Such a day often leaves the spirit strangely nourished. Then think of another day when nothing felt coherent. Too many interruptions.
Too little meaning. At the end of it, the fatigue is not merely physical; it is existential. One does not simply need sleep. One needs restoration.
The same principle applies at home. Household work can either drain us or dignify us. Much depends on the inner posture with which it is done. If every task is approached only as duty, drudgery, and obligation, then even small chores feel heavy. But when the same work is seen as an act of care, gratitude , love, and a contribution to one’s family’s well-being, something subtle changes. A mind in alignment generates energy even while working hard. That is perhaps why many of us, when we say, “I am exhausted,” are not always reporting a lack of physical stamina. Often, we are expressing something deeper: that the day felt heavy, uninspiring, stressful, or emotionally overdrawn. We are carrying the psychological residue of the day into the night.
Once we understand this, our response can become wiser. If the body is tired, support it with sleep, nutrition, hydration, movement, and medical discipline. But if the mind is exhausted, the answer may not lie only in rest; it may lie in recovering rhythm, reducing inner clutter, and reconnecting with purpose. The body needs recovery, mind needs renewal and the spirit, perhaps, needs remembrance: life is not meant to feel like an endless carrying of weight.
Sometimes what exhausts us most is not what we did, but how far we felt from meaning while doing it. Sometimes the first step back to energy is not to do less, but to live with greater awareness of what truly nourishes us.
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