Kamal Ghorui
Ego is the silent, stubborn guest at the table that turns a small disagreement into a three-day “cold war.” It’s that defensive voice that would rather “win” an argument than actually solve the problem. When we let ego take the wheel, we stop listening to understand and start listening to rebut. We trade genuine vulnerability for sarcasm or the dreaded “I’m sorry you feel that way.” Over time, this “I’m right, you’re wrong” dynamic erodes the safety of the relationship, making the other person stop trying to be heard. To protect the bond, you have to realize that being “right” is often incredibly lonely. The ultimate relationship “power move” is choosing kindness over correction and having the courage to say, “I messed up,” or “I’m just feeling insecure.”
