Kamal Ghorui
I may need care. There is nothing embarrassing about it.
There are waiting rooms. And then there are the kind that stay with you, long after you have left. A dental hospital. Sharp with antiseptic. The faint smell of clove oil hanging in the air. Machines humming in the background. It is hardly where you expect to find gentleness.
And yet, that morning, as I sat there slightly nauseous, trying to steady myself, something shifted. It wasn’t a familiar face or a comforting word I knew. It was strangers, quiet and unassuming, who somehow made the space feel less lonely, less clinical, more human.
An array of doctors moved around me with quiet efficiency. They were young, almost startlingly so. Energetic, attentive, very present in the moment. They are not just practitioners of a profession. They listen. Really listen. There was no rush in their voices, no clinical detachment in their gestures. Instead, there was a softness that felt deliberate.
I remember a wave of discomfort rising within me. That odd mix of physical unease and emotional vulnerability hospitals bring. Before I could sink into it, one of them gently stepped in. “Ma’am, tell me a phone number. Anyone. Someone you love.” It was such an unexpected request that it momentarily disarmed me. Another joined in, almost playfully, asking me to recall more numbers, to keep my mind occupied, to anchor me somewhere outside the immediate moment.
It struck me then, almost suddenly, that the people whose numbers I could recite without thinking were not actually there. Loved ones, in today’s world, often exist at a distance. They live in our phones, in our messages, in the spaces between calls.
They are real. Very real. Just not always there when you need them. Not always reachable when your body falters, when your mind begins to tremble.
And yet, here were these young doctors, stepping into that gap without hesitation.
One of them, a young woman with earnest eyes, walked up to her head of department and said, “Ma’am, Barsha ma’am is feeling nervous.” There was something deeply human in that. Not just the concern, but the way she said it. The willingness to name my vulnerability when I myself was trying to sit upright, composed, almost pretending it did not exist.
We are, after all, always asked to be brave.
It is an expectation that settles quietly into us over the years. To endure. To hold ourselves together. To not make a spectacle of discomfort. Especially in public spaces, especially in institutions where we are meant to trust systems more than people. Bravery becomes a default posture, almost a reflex.
But that morning, in that dental hospital, I was reminded of something far more honest. That sometimes, I can break. That sometimes, I can be nervous. And that this does not diminish me.
What stayed with me was not the procedure, nor the diagnosis, nor even the discomfort. It was the care. Quiet, unspoken care. It came from people who had no prior relationship with me. No emotional history, no obligation beyond their duty. Yet they still chose to extend themselves beyond the bare minimum.
In a world that often speaks of declining empathy, of transactional interactions, of hurried lives, these moments feel almost extraordinary. They remind us that care doesn’t always show up where we expect it. It does not always arrive through familiar voices or known hands. Sometimes, it appears in sterile corridors, in the quiet insistence of a young doctor asking you to remember a phone number.
And sometimes, it arrives in the simple act of being seen.
As I walked out of that hospital, steadier than when I had walked in, I carried with me an unexpected reassurance. That even in moments when loved ones are far away, when courage feels like a fragile construct, there are still people who will pause, notice, and hold space for your fear.
Not grandly. Not dramatically.
But enough.
